It isn’t always easy to tell if a child has a speech, language and communication need (SLCN). It depends on lots of things such as their age, the types of difficulties they have and how severe their difficulties are. Some children are very young when their needs are identified, others can be well into school years where the curriculum has become more complicated and language demands are higher, before problems become apparent.
Children develop at very different rates and some are later to talk than others. However as a parent it can be worrying when your child isn’t saying as much as other children of the same age.
In young children the following are possible signs that something is wrong:
- they aren’t responding to sounds
- they appear to be regressing
- they appear uninterested in communication
- they have difficulty following simple instructions
- they find it difficult to learn and remember vocabulary
- they aren’t putting words together to form sentences like their peers
- people have difficulty understanding them
- they find it difficult to pay attention to things
- they find it difficult to make and keep friends
- they are struggling with reading, spelling or maths
- they have difficulty with fluency of speech(stammer/stutter)
In older children, as well as the above, the following are signs of a possible SLCN:
- they are slow to answer questions or follow instructions
- they appear to switch off when people are talking
- their sentences sound jumbled, words are in the wrong order and they have difficulty organising their thoughts into words
- they struggle telling you about their day
- they don’t understand jokes or language that is more complicated, e.g. idioms, abstract concepts and find it difficult to make inferences, draw conclusions, explain reasoning and express opinions
- they find it difficlut to understand irony and sarcasm
- they find it difficult to join in or keep up with conversation
If you are worried about any aspect of your child’s speech, language and communication development you can seek advice from your GP, Health Visitor, nursery staff, school nurse, teacher or NHS Speech and Language Therapist. Milestone information is also available from Talking point, The Communication Trust and I CAN.
Alternatively you can contact me for a free telephone consultation where I will be happy to listen to your specific concerns and give you advice.